Good evening.
First, I want to thank everyone for being here to celebrate such a beautiful day. Looking
around this room, it's easy to see how much love surrounds these two just by seeing how
people show up for them not only today, but every other day as well.
I have the incredible honor of not only being my mom's Maid of Honor, but her daughter.
In 2017 my Dad passed away very unexpectedly. Overnight, life changed for our family. For a
few years, it was just my mom, John and me. We leaned on each other through some of the
hardest moments of our lives, and I watched my mom carry more than anyone should ever
have to. She figured out how to run a business, be the head of our household, and supported
my brother and I through our grief. She showed us what strength, resilience, and
unconditional love truly look like.
As hard as those years were, God was preparing us for the next chapter.
Fast forward. In 2020, something amazing happened. My mom met Alex.
I’ll never forget how excited my Mom was when she told me she met this guy at Village Idiot.
She was especially excited that he had a nice full head of hair.
The night of their first date my Mom was actually really sick. But she knew she felt something
special with Alex and we both agreed she had to just get up and go. And thank God she did.
Now, I have to admit...the first time I met Alex wasn't exactly ideal. It wasn't at a barbecue or
a family dinner. It was at the hospital after my brother's girlfriend Rebecca unexpectedly
passed away.
It was one of the hardest days our family has ever experienced.
Alex barely knew us, but that didn't matter to him. He showed up. He supported my mom.
He helped our family. He was calm when everything around us felt chaotic. He didn't have to
do any of that, but that's just a testament to the kind of man he is.
I remember thinking, "Wow...Mom found a really good one."
What started as a new relationship slowly became something so much bigger. Alex didn't
just fall in love with my mom, he brought with him three incredible kids: Colby, Lukas, and
Allison who I am so blessed to now call my brothers and sister. We quickly blended and
started creating memories together.
The best part is, they weren't replacing anyone. They became something we didn't even
realize we were missing.
Watching our families come together has been one of the greatest gifts. It's reminded me
that families aren't only the ones we're born into, they're also the ones we choose, the ones
we build, and the ones that make room for even more love.
Anyone who has had the pleasure of watching these two together knows that my mom and
Alex are the most authentic versions of themselves when they're together. They're silly,
adventurous, and always looking for the next thing to do. Honestly, I don't think they know
what "relaxing" means. I'm half their age, and I can't keep up but Alex can do an Iron Man...
four times.
Their love story has always been one big adventure. Whether they're daring each other to
jump into the ocean in the middle of lunch, racing down hotel hallways like teenagers, or
flying down a slip and slide, they're always laughing. And I think that's my favorite thing about
them. They remind each other not to take life too seriously because they understand that
everything can change in the blink of an eye. They find joy in the ordinary, excitement in the
unexpected, and somehow manage to turn every trip, weekend, and every random Tuesday
into a memory worth talking about.
One of the greatest parts about Alex is his ability to make people feel seen. He’s observant
and thoughtful. If you tell Alex in passing something you like or have interest in, he is the first
person to show up with it the next time he sees you.
Alex took me and John in like we were his own. There was never a day I felt like he was just
my Mom’s boyfriend. He became a Dad to me and showed up for me and my children in ways
we desperately needed. He was never asked, he just did it.
Mom, you've always taught me that love is about showing up, even when life is hard. You
deserve every bit of happiness that today represents. Not many children get the privilege of
watching their parent fall in love. But watching you and Alex’s love story unfold in front of me
has been such an amazing honor. Seeing you smile the way you do with Alex fills my heart in
so many ways. Seeing someone so deserving of love being loved the way you are brings me
peace.
Alex, thank you for loving my mom so well. Thank you for welcoming my brother and me, and
for raising such amazing kids. Thank you for making our family bigger, louder, and full of love.
And thank you for being there right from the very beginning, even before you really knew us.
I knew my Dad would always be a part of our story. His love helped shape who we are, and I
believe he would want us to keep living and loving as deep as we do. Today isn't about leaving
the past behind. It's about honoring it, while celebrating the beautiful future that's ahead.
Love isn’t limited. It grows and it makes room for new people without ever replacing the ones
we’ve lost.
Mom and Alex, may your marriage be filled with laughter, patience, even more adventure,
and countless memories.
Everyone, please raise your glass.
To my Mom and Alex: thank you for reminding us that love can find us again, that families can
grow in the most unexpected ways, and that even after loss, life can still surprise us with
incredible joy.
Here's to your next chapter together. We love you both.
Cheers!